Identity usually affects more than one area, but you only have to recognize it in one of its manifestations for it to start to lose its power in many parts of your life. Just pick an area of life where you experience stress, difficulty, or stagnation. As long as you are willing to go as deep as you need to, you will come face-to-face with a thought

“I am a conscious person, but those around me that refuse to deal with their issues are making life hard for me.”

“My partner is always upsetting me.”

Change happens from the outside. One can use force, coercion, even kindness and good deeds to influence it. The miracle of transformation occurs from the inside, from the center of the reality, which is the creator herself. It is an expression of oneness that has no opposite.

Transformative change or transformation is shifting so completely out of the old paradigm that none of the guidelines of it apply to the new reality. The shift that occurs is permanent and independent. In the reality that has been transformed (or more precisely to say, the creator of which has transformed), the experience will not slide back to the

To support the change or staying closer to the positive side requires constant effort and maintenance. The negative polarity, as remote as it may appear, is always a consideration because it still exists. Change is good, but it only moves you within the old reality you’ve created based on the flawed idea of who you are. What you want if you want

Change is a certain difference that we can make without dismantling the paradigm the difference is being made in.

may be afraid to take ownership of our reality because we don’t want to see that we may share something with these bad situations. We may be afraid that it will be discovered, at least on some level, we are also bad, scary, ugly, or violent. Nothing can be further from the truth. No matter how awful the outer expression of any situation is, the

To take ownership in your own life, start practicing this new perspective. Begin thinking of all the circumstances and relationships in your life as something you have selected and chosen for your life because they perfectly fit the agenda of your Identity on one level or another. Get curious about your life and how you designed it. Think of your