
How To Think About Change

Hard things are supposed to be hard.
Changing old patterns, ending relationships you’ve outgrown, raising children, creating from your core, letting go, stretching, growing, and stepping into the unknown.
The more worthwhile endeavors require you to show up vulnerably & honestly, and they leave space for something new to happen.
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... See moreThe process of crossing the threshold is demanding for each and every one of us. When the cracks appear in a long-held belief, it causes anxiety and pain. As the certain world is replaced by great uncertainty, the risk is that we cling to what we know more than ever. The gravitational pull of the familiar exerts itself, no matter how dysfunctional
... See moreJon Alexander • Citizens: Why the Key to Fixing Everything is All of Us
Some people’s lives change in a big way at a big moment: inspiration strikes, the wheel of fortune turns. Some people evolve slowly, perhaps erratically, but consciously, deliberately. For most, change involves both sudden inspiration and slow transformation.