
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (Dale Carnegie Books)

But the fool does the exact opposite. If he finds that life has handed him a lemon, he gives up and says, “I’m beaten. It is fate. I haven’t got a chance.” Then he proceeds to rail against the world and indulge in an orgy of self-pity. But when the wise man is handed a lemon, he says: “What lesson can I learn from this misfortune? How can I improve
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However, knowledge isn’t power until it is applied;
Dale Carnegie • How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (Dale Carnegie Books)
Let’s not allow ourselves to be upset by small things we should despise and forget. Remember “Life is too short to be little.”
Dale Carnegie • How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (Dale Carnegie Books)
Fundamental Facts You Should Know About Worry RULE 1: IF YOU WANT TO AVOID WORRY, DO WHAT SIR WILLIAM OSLER DID: LIVE IN “DAY-TIGHT COMPARTMENTS.” DON’T STEW ABOUT THE FUTURE. JUST LIVE EACH DAY UNTIL BEDTIME. RULE 2: THE NEXT TIME TROUBLE—WITH A CAPITAL T—BACKS YOU UP IN A CORNER, TRY THE MAGIC FORMULA OF WILLIS H. CARRIER: a. Ask yourself, “What
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You and I could probably eliminate nine tenths of our worries right now if we would cease our fretting long enough to discover whether, by the law of averages, there was any real justification for our worries.
Dale Carnegie • How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (Dale Carnegie Books)
About ninety per cent of the things in our lives are right and about ten per cent are wrong. If we want to be happy, all we have to do is to concentrate on the ninety per cent that are right and ignore the ten per cent that are wrong. If we want to be worried and bitter and have stomach ulcers, all we have to do is to concentrate on the ten percent
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If we want to develop a mental attitude that will bring us peace and happiness, here is Rule 1: Think and act cheerfully, and you will feel cheerful.
Dale Carnegie • How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (Dale Carnegie Books)
To break the worry habit before it breaks you, Rule 4 is: Co-operate with the inevitable.
Dale Carnegie • How to Stop Worrying and Start Living (Dale Carnegie Books)
So, to break the worry habit before it breaks you, here is Rule 5: Whenever we are tempted to throw good money after bad in terms of human living, let’s stop and ask ourselves these three questions: 1. How much does this thing I am worrying about really matter to me? 2. At what point shall I set a “stop-loss” order on this worry—and forget it?
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