How to Find Your Better Side and Take a Good Selfie (Published 2019)
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How to Find Your Better Side and Take a Good Selfie (Published 2019)
I had come to equate being taken seriously and being smart with wearing glasses. So I thought, What if I wore glasses? I figured—as absurd as it sounds—it was worth a try.
These influencers gaze at us through the camera’s lens with so much heart-bursting love that it’s easy to forget that what they are actually looking at is their own faces on their phones—their digital doubles—as they coach us all to reach for our own best selves, our body doubles, in the never-ending house of mirrors.
The ideal woman looks beautiful, happy, carefree, and perfectly competent. Is she really? To look any particular way and to actually be that way are two separate concepts, and striving to look carefree and happy can interfere with your ability to feel so. The internet codifies this problem, makes it inescapable; in recent years, pop culture has sta
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