Here is a classic pattern: you try really hard to do something GOOD, then you fail, or you make something silly. And it is the failures that people love, or the thing that was just a silly thing. So try to set yourself up to failure, to not doing the thing that is right, but the thing that just sort of happens when you are not trying.

Create a "failure resume". Document your mistakes and what you learned from them. This helps normalize failure and turn it into a powerful tool for growth. You'll read it and be reminded

When we fear failure and believe we shouldn’t make mistakes, our inner critics can get loud and harsh. This is because failing can seem like evidence that we aren’t good enough, so we berate ourselves, thinking this will motivate us to improve. In reality, being harsh with ourselves isn’t motivating, and failing is a part of growing and learning.

... See more