Here Goes Nothing

If couples too often ignore the requirement, it is because they operate under an unfair burden of bravery: they are far more susceptible than they let themselves think. They assume that it cannot be sane to get “upset” so often, to experience so much hurt, to be so easily ruffled. They can’t summon the courage to make a complaint about things that

The family will never get started if all the couple can think about is how hard it’s going to be.

“The things that destroy love and marriage often disguise themselves as unimportant,” Fray said. “Many dangerous things neither appear nor feel dangerous as they’re happening. They’re not bombs and gunshots. They’re pinpricks. They’re paper cuts. And that is the danger. When we don’t recognize something as threatening, then we’re not on guard. Thes