Fathers and mothers have lost the idea that the highest aspiration they might have for their children is for them to be wise—as priests, prophets or philosophers are wise. Specialized competence and success are all that they [most fathers and mothers] can imagine.6

the light of the world . . . Let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. (Matthew 5:13, 14, 16)

reaching young people is a lot like fishing. When it comes to luring fish, it’s best to put on the hook something they like to eat, not what you like.

None of these people could see what Jesus could see. None of them had any grasp of the bigger picture. Their needs were the result of their myopic condition, or their naiveté, or their lack of sophistication. Jesus could have dismissed their needs because of how small they appeared next to the bigger task before Him. But His grace kicked in, and it

And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose. (Romans 8:28)

There is a deep longing in the heart of every child to “make a difference.” They were hard-wired by God to want to do more than take up space and suck up air.

You might have children who are the life of the party, automatic leaders, shy, inquisitive, born doubters, soft-spoken, loud, quick to tears, stubborn, easily distracted, or very serious. Grace can be one of the best tools you use to help them live out these personality quirks in balanced ways. PARTING WORDS

I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirsty. (John 6:35, emphasis mine)

How could a God who already loved me infinitely and supremely possibly love me more?