For the rest of the interview, specific questions were asked about a range of issues, including advice for choosing a mate; suggestions for how to deal with stressors that affect a couple; ideas to help a young couple considering splitting up; the role of intimacy in a relationship (and how it changes); and their core values and principles for marr

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Typically, when asked why we are marrying someone, we feel pressured to respond by listing the ways they are lovely to be with. But a bigger, fairer explanation of why we’re with them, and why they might be a good spouse for us, involves exploring three questions: What might I learn from them? In what ways has my past constrained my choice of partn

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