From Esther Perel's Blog - Letters From Esther #37: Eroticism is an Art. But It’s Also a Practice.

It’s not about increasing frequency, it’s about creating a new vibe.  And, contrary to popular belief, erotic practice doesn’t begin in the bedroom.  Eroticism can come from the welcome touch of your lover or it can come from noticing how late summer rain feels on your skin and inviting your lover outside to experience it with you.