The great paradox of the avoidant attacher is…. They leave when they care. They run when they’re close. They shut down when it’s good. It’s hard to comprehend because it goes against logic. But... See more

Avoidants fall for people with emotional depth— then run from the intimacy they claimed to want. They loved your openness… until it felt like a mirror. If you’ve been made to feel like your emotions are “too much,” you’re not the... See more

They'll act completely normal with others. Laughing with coworkers, warm with family. The cold treatment is reserved specifically for you—the person who dared to get close. It's psychological warfare designed to make you question everything. "Did I imagine our connection?" "Am I being too needy?"... See more

avoidant attachment is a protective strategy bc they (at some point) developed this pattern bc connection felt unsafe. they learned to rely on themselves because depending on others led to disappointment, rejection, or hurt 💔⛓️‍💥😞 please know that avoidants aren’t intentionally trying to hurt you— they’re trying to... See more

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