Protection is the opposite of playing with her emotions to get what you want.

most girls just aren’t wired to respond as visually as guys are. Instead, a girl’s appreciation of a guy’s looks is only part of what her brain considers about him.

Sure, girls can be visually attracted to a buff guy. But, believe it or not, they also appear to have an automatic suspicion of him. In fact, we learned that most girls don’t trust Mr. Perfect-on-the-Outside. They figure he is arrogant and full of himself. They think he’ll treat them badly and then move on.

almost every seemingly random behavior by a girl is actually logical. It happens for a reason.

a little earlier we told you the truth but not the whole truth. (Jeff’s a lawyer—what did you expect?) On the survey question on Dreaming About Black Knights, we told you we asked, “What personality attributes might be attractive in a ‘bad boy’…?” But that wasn’t the whole question. Our reason for this cruel ploy was that we wanted you to notice

Remember who you are.

Talk with Your Ears; Listen with Your Heart

You just need to be you.

care so much about a guy’s other qualities