For Young Men Only

I was the hero. (Well, what did you expect?)

Sure, you’ll live with a billion hormones pulsing through your body (just like the guys who are already sleeping around, by the way). But you’ll live with a clear conscience,

“Here’s my rule: if I don’t got it, I don’t touch it!”

It is a whole lot easier never starting something than trying to stop something once it’s started. We don’t need to go into detail here, do we? You know what we’re talking about. Keep your hands to yourself, stay off those Web sites you know will melt your brain, and the temptations will be a lot easier to manage.

You aren’t the only one who hasn’t done it. And even if you are in the minority, it means you’re the strongest man standing—the one who has fought the best fight, the one who cares the most about himself, his girl, and his future.

your brain is comparing reality with fantasy.

Every day feels like a battle between what we know is right and what we’re tempted to believe and do. And it’s all too easy for guys to get trapped into believing things that are not only wrong but also dangerous.

Going to War to Protect Yourself—and Her

These aren’t the ideas about sex that hit you in the face when you turn on the television or go to the movies, are they?