If you have a feminine sexual essence, then you want to look and feel good. The earrings you wear—gold or silver, beaded or feathered, huge or tiny—affect how the energy flows through your body and how people experience you. The color of your clothing and the style of your shoes affect how you feel—and how others feel you—all day. Most women are

An unguarded heart can be hurt, but not destroyed. It is the “you” of protection that is destroyed,

These qualities—consciousness, presence, humor, and wealth—reflect different levels of the attainment of masculine freedom; a person with these qualities is sexy to you if you have a feminine sexual essence.

the divine is one, but manifests as two: masculine and feminine divinity,

Most women are turned on by a man who can take them to new places, not only on the dance floor but in bed and throughout life.

then you are not choosing “no.” You are a slave to the habit of unlove.

True growth involves the capacity to feel into, as, and through your emotions, exactly as they are, without trying to make them go away or pretend they don’t exist. Feel fully and open.

Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her heart in happiness, if you can bring her depth when she is superficial, align her life when she feels lost, brighten her with humor when she is dark—if you can learn to give your

But then I noticed that my feeling had stopped short. I was luxuriating in the intense pleasure of love, light, and energy. Here I was, snuffled in our bliss, as we were dying. I saw the wrinkles of age forming around her beautiful lips. Slowly her face transmogrified into an old, haggard woman, gumming the withered appendage of my moldy destined