Sexual availability simply means you have the capacity to respond to love with the energetic openness of your body.

Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her heart in happiness, if you can bring her depth when she is superficial, align her life when she feels lost, brighten her with humor when she is dark—if you can learn to give your deepes

To grow in freedom is to develop the capacity to remain open as love even in the most difficult—as well as the most pleasurable—circumstances. This growth involves combining yourself entirely with the actual emotional texture of the present moment.

True growth involves the capacity to feel into, as, and through your emotions, exactly as they are, without trying to make them go away or pretend they don’t exist. Feel fully and open.

pleasure is the domain of the feminine.

If you have a feminine sexual essence, then you want to look and feel good. The earrings you wear—gold or silver, beaded or feathered, huge or tiny—affect how the energy flows through your body and how people experience you. The color of your clothing and the style of your shoes affect how you feel—and how others feel you—all day. Most women are ex

Cosmic humor is to see the unnecessary nature of everything. This utter freedom is a primary masculine gift.

Because you reject certain “ugly” textures of your own feminine incarnation of energy,

the divine is one, but manifests as two: masculine and feminine divinity,