Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh

Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her heart in happiness, if you can bring her depth when she is superficial, align her life when she feels lost, brighten her with humor when she is dark—if you can learn to give your deepes

For instance, perhaps 10% of women (and 80% of men) have a more masculine sexual

But then I noticed that my feeling had stopped short. I was luxuriating in the intense pleasure of love, light, and energy. Here I was, snuffled in our bliss, as we were dying. I saw the wrinkles of age forming around her beautiful lips. Slowly her face transmogrified into an old, haggard woman, gumming the withered appendage of my moldy destined s

pleasure is the domain of the feminine.

The way somebody dances tells you a lot about how they make love.

the divine is one, but manifests as two: masculine and feminine divinity,

Sexual availability simply means you have the capacity to respond to love with the energetic openness of your body.

Both of these forms of closure, long-term and short-term, can be undone in sexual practice. You can actually use sex to de-ice the frozen heart.

Just as freedom fulfills the masculine essence, love fulfills the feminine.