Finding God Through Sex: Awakening the One of Spirit Through the Two of Flesh

Most women are turned on by a man who can take them to new places, not only on the dance floor but in bed and throughout life.

True growth involves the capacity to feel into, as, and through your emotions, exactly as they are, without trying to make them go away or pretend they don’t exist. Feel fully and open.

Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her heart in happiness, if you can bring her depth when she is superficial, align her life when she feels lost, brighten her with humor when she is dark—if you can learn to give your deepes

there is a difference between choice and resistance. Choice is a loving, soft, intimate decision,

Cosmic humor is to see the unnecessary nature of everything. This utter freedom is a primary masculine gift.

Sexual availability simply means you have the capacity to respond to love with the energetic openness of your body.

But if you allow yourself to fully incarnate these feelings of fear, need, and emptiness—if you open as them, breathe as them, and allow your body to be moved as them—then you allow yourself to live as the full power of love.

Because you reject certain “ugly” textures of your own feminine incarnation of energy,

then you are not choosing “no.” You are a slave to the habit of unlove.