the divine is one, but manifests as two: masculine and feminine divinity,

As a grown woman, you have probably sought for a lover whose strength and integrity you could depend on and trust—and who would also ravish you into bliss.

pleasure is the domain of the feminine.

If you have a feminine sexual essence, then you want to look and feel good. The earrings you wear—gold or silver, beaded or feathered, huge or tiny—affect how the energy flows through your body and how people experience you. The color of your clothing and the style of your shoes affect how you feel—and how others feel you—all day. Most women are

But then I noticed that my feeling had stopped short. I was luxuriating in the intense pleasure of love, light, and energy. Here I was, snuffled in our bliss, as we were dying. I saw the wrinkles of age forming around her beautiful lips. Slowly her face transmogrified into an old, haggard woman, gumming the withered appendage of my moldy destined

Just as freedom fulfills the masculine essence, love fulfills the feminine.

Both of these forms of closure, long-term and short-term, can be undone in sexual practice. You can actually use sex to de-ice the frozen heart.

Which leads to this conclusion: most men aren’t motivated to improve their intimacy or sex skills until they realize that in doing so they are actually advancing their true purpose. Your capacity to “fuck” your woman is your capacity to “fuck” the world. If you can penetrate your woman with love in spite of her resistances, if you can bloom her

there is a difference between choice and resistance. Choice is a loving, soft, intimate decision,