Finding your life’s work involves taking risks. First you need to firmly establish your identity, separating yourself from those you are attached to and following your desires. You must take ownership of how you feel, how you think, and what you want. You must assess your talents and limitations. And then you must begin to step out as God leads you

pay attention to what I call the “three N’s”: noticing what you love, narrowing your focus, and, finally, naming the thing you most desire, the identity that fits as though it’s custom-tailored.