Extended Massive Orgasm, Updated and Illustrated: How you can give and receive intense sexual pleasure (Positively Sexual)

Now, because you want to keep your partner as close to total effect as you can, keep your questions simple. A “yes” or “no” should be all the answer you require. Good questions include the following: “Would you like more pressure?” “Would you like me to touch more to the left?” “Would you like it slower?” Don’t ask multiple-choice- or essay-type qu

We tell students who are about to have a session with us to put the energy of their fear and excitement into their genitals. That energy is often felt when someone is expecting to have a new and unusual experience. People misjudge it as fear or something negative because they are not used to the sensation, and it therefore is scary to them.

What you are left with, once you have removed envy and exclusion, is tumescence, the sexual energy that can be used for great orgasms. This heightened energy is too strong for many people to handle pleasurably, and that is why a lot of people fight to bring the energy down to a more comfortable level before they have sex. If you can channel this en

The best orgasms are produced, however, by uncomplicated, simple, and repeated strokes. If you feel that you have to get fancy and complicate your stroking, that is probably due to your partner’s lack of feeling. If you realize instead that the only time that exists is the present, you’ll keep your attention on what’s happening now.

Notice, for example, the amount of pressure you can apply to the outside of your elbow as opposed to the inside. You will probably notice that different parts of your body like to be touched in different ways. This is your chance to find out.

You should also continue to tell your partner what you will do before you do it, so that they will feel safe,

Sensuality is about giving pleasure to the body or mind through the senses. The key word here is pleasure. Sensuality includes all five of the senses: hearing, seeing, smelling, tasting, and touching. It also includes the sixth sense, which is any use of conceptual thought to enhance pleasure.

(Attend and attention actually share the root meaning, “stretching to.”)

When peaking your partner, you stop or change the stroke just before he or she either goes over or stops feeling. Peaking allows tumescence to build. Each time you peak your partner, it allows the energy to reach a higher level.