Everything is relationship.

I open up the possibility for new patterns of relationship, where survival, belonging, and meaning are all important and all have a voice. And equally important, I step out of argument mode and decision-making mode into awareness mode so I can actually become curious about what reality—external and internal—is trying to tell me.

Above all, awareness requires recognizing that we’re ultimately interdependent. Together

relationships are the natural connections to others that make us relevant to each other and to society more broadly.

What brings fulfillment is being in a certain form of reciprocal relationship with the rest of the world, including other people; you might liken it to a dance in which you alternatingly lead and follow. Whereas a relationship in which you unquestionably have the upper hand at all times is no relationship at all.

As Me leaders realize this oneness. It is not simply a philosophy or belief for them. It is a direct experience. Once a leader discovers the truth of what is—oneness—and who they are, their consciousness shifts dramatically. Just as a thought experiment, imagine for a moment how you would lead and live in a world without separation; no separation b