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Embracing Sub-Optimal Relationships
manufactured neediness prepares the ground for new commodities. The goal is not to alleviate loneliness or isolation by fostering vernacular human relationships, which, of course, cannot be readily monetized, but to insinuate, pejoratively, that such relationships are inefficient and full of friction.
L. M. Sacasas • Embracing Sub-Optimal Relationships
we are starved for personal relationships but we are simultaneously discouraged from nurturing them, de-skilled in the relevant habits, and sold inadequate substitutes in their place.
L. M. Sacasas • Embracing Sub-Optimal Relationships
If affection is kindled by time and attention, the default settings of our techno-economic order undermine our capacity to give either. We are instead encouraged to live as machines rather than creatures, optimizing for all the wrong metrics.
L. M. Sacasas • Embracing Sub-Optimal Relationships
manufactured neediness prepares the ground for new commodities. The goal is not to alleviate loneliness or isolation by fostering vernacular human relationships, which, of course, cannot be readily monetized, but to insinuate, pejoratively, that such relationships are inefficient and full of friction.
L. M. Sacasas • Embracing Sub-Optimal Relationships
a manufactured neediness so that we might be all the more beholden to the goods and services marketed with the promise of alleviating our plight and addressing the very neediness they cultivate
L. M. Sacasas • Embracing Sub-Optimal Relationships
Allow me, then, to close with a simple exhortation: we need people in our lives, not the simulation of people.