Reject status games.
Buy experiences, not things. Invest in skills over stuff. Prioritize freedom over ownership. Choose substance.
Your worth is not the sum of your possessions, but the depth of your life.
You come to understand that most people are neither for you nor against you, they are thinking about themselves. You learn that no matter how hard you try to please, some people in this world are not going to love you, a lesson that is at first troubling and then really quite relaxing.
Is this something you genuinely want, or is it something you feel you’re supposed to want? What stories are you spinning about the person who appears to have it? Are you imagining their life as more effortless, joyful, or fulfilling than yours? Gently question these assumptions and notice how much energy you’re investing in clinging to those belief... See more