We all know we’re overstimulated and want to stop, but we can’t. We use app blockers, throw our phones away, and build rigid routines. But none of it works because we’re solving symptoms not the root cause. The root is our inability and cowardice to face ourselves, the thoughts, feelings and the pain that comes along. So we indulge in excessive... See more
Devansh Tomarsubstack.comDevansh Tomar (@devanshtomar)
Many of us yearn for a way to be fully online without all of the mindlessness, passivity and addiction that often entraps us. Some of us oscillate between fully online and fully offline in a sort of mad dance to establish what feels right. Others have lost hope that it’s possible to engage in a way that feels true and alive, and have resigned to... See more
Dan Hunt • Internet as Practice
So it’s a good bet that when you step away from your devices, you’ll be spending more time, at least in the near term, with the emotions they were helping you avoid. Fortunately, in most cases, just knowing to expect this will enable you to resist the temptation to scurry back to the screens. (And incidentally, if you doubt that you use technology... See more
The Imperfectionist: Three ideas for turbulent times
Digital addiction isn’t a phone problem.
It’s an emotion regulation problem.
People use their devices as a way to avoid stress or unpleasant feelings.
To break the addiction, you have to have a different way to recover from stress and regulate your... See more
Julie Fratantonisubstack.com