Dear Peach: big city ambition, rejection obsession, and escaping waifhood

“You can have anything you want but you can’t have everything you want”

You are safe where you are, but you are not getting what you want. If you go after what you want, you will have to create a safety that can travel — one that can get bumped around and sleep in odd places and get crafty when the first of the month rolls around. You will, in other words, have to believe in the home of yourself.