Dating Essentials for Men: The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need

Treat dating as a science experiment, not as a way of validating your worth. One of the quickest, most powerful ways to blast away your SLBs is to consciously try to get to rejection as quickly as possible.

Ironically, in Western culture, it is actually safer to assume that the average woman has a fairly low opinion of herself and has plenty of emotional baggage. For example, a primary source of esteem for women in this culture is physical appearance. Since childhood, most women have been comparing themselves to every other woman. As a result, many wo

If you are looking for a woman to complete you – be the cake of your life – and give you meaning, purpose, and happiness, you will always be frustrated and resentful. If you take responsibility for creating an interesting and full life by embracing your passion, leaning into challenge, and having good relationships with men, then a good woman will

Dating and courting are not in our human DNA. They have only existed in Western culture for a few generations. In the East – not even there yet. For most of modern civilization, marriages were arranged by families and clans. The idea of romantic love has only been around a couple of hundred years.

The world we have created is a product of our thinking. It cannot change without changing our thinking. – Albert Einstein

Because your mind believes what your mind tells you, you are convinced that you really can’t handle these things. Dr. Jeffers asserts that one of the most effective ways to calm your mind is to consciously replace these lies with the truth – You CAN handle it! Think about this: You have handled everything so far in life (even when you didn’t believ

Approach tends to be adolescent in nature (even when we try to convince ourselves it isn’t). The ego-based attachment behind approach is shallow: you typically want to engage with a woman for one primary reason – her looks. While it is normal to be attracted to young and/or attractive women, using a woman’s physical appearance as your primary reaso

This is why it is essential to hold onto your full life and practice differentiation, even after you move into an intimate relationship. Differentiation is the ability to hold on to yourself when there is pressure to fuse and lose yourself to another. Differentiation is essential for personal happiness and relationship health.

The initial date should always be on a weekday (any time) or Sunday afternoon. Never, ever plan a first date on one of the prime date nights (Friday & Saturday). You don’t want to leave the impression that you have nothing to do on these nights besides have coffee with a woman you don’t know.

The major mistake that most men and the majority of bad daters make with women is they interact with them passively and force the woman to set the tone and take the lead. 98% of the time, if the man doesn’t set the tone and the woman does, she will set a tone for becoming friends. Rarely will a woman set the tone for becoming lovers if the man fail