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Dating Essentials for Men: The Only Dating Guide You Will Ever Need
In 2007, I launched four, four-week online Dating Essentials for Men courses. These courses were a compilation of what I had learned through trial and error and a lot of fucking practice. The courses became an instant success because they offered a breath of fresh air from programs that teach men to be cocky/funny, spin plates, or use canned pickup
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
Don’t look at dating as an attempt to get women to like you, sleep with you, marry you, etc. Look at dating as the most effective way imaginable to clean out all the distorted mental crap you’ve been packing around inside you since birth. The bonus is that you will also get the love and sex you have been looking for.
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
In most social situations, your mind will do this in a split second. Unfortunately, your mind can’t tell the difference between real and perceived outcomes. It treats them all the same and believes they are all equally possible. Your mind creates its own reality based on what it can imagine. These imagined outcomes are often influenced by SLBs and
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
Relearning to use your diaphragm in breathing and to reduce your rate of breathing is an important first step in soothing the symptoms of anxiety, anger, panic, etc. Upper chest, rapid breathing gets rid of too much carbon dioxide causing us to feel agitated and breathless. It causes our nervous system to go into overdrive.
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
Ironically, in Western culture, it is actually safer to assume that the average woman has a fairly low opinion of herself and has plenty of emotional baggage. For example, a primary source of esteem for women in this culture is physical appearance. Since childhood, most women have been comparing themselves to every other woman. As a result, many wo
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
Here is what I’ve found over and over again from women of all ages and backgrounds. A woman wants: •A man she can trust. •A man who makes her feel secure. •A man who can set the tone and take the lead. •A man who has passion. •A man who can make her laugh. •An intelligent man (not just analytical). •A man who is generous and compassionate. •A man w
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
Because of your SLBs, you probably date down and settle for women you don’t enjoy or who don’t turn you on. Your SLBs have probably caused you to stay in bad or unfulfilling relationships way too long because you don’t think there are many good women out there. And, even if there are good women out there, you don’t believe you could ever get one. Y
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
It is important to smash this myth about women. In general, women don’t want to be in charge of the relationship. When a man lets the woman set the tone of a relationship, he is doing the exact opposite of what will make her feel secure. Women consistently tell me that they want a man who will set the tone and take the lead – and not just in decidi
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago
If you are looking for a woman to complete you – be the cake of your life – and give you meaning, purpose, and happiness, you will always be frustrated and resentful. If you take responsibility for creating an interesting and full life by embracing your passion, leaning into challenge, and having good relationships with men, then a good woman will
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Jean-Charles Kurdali added 2mo ago