Calling in "The One" Revised and Expanded: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life

Happiness and true freedom come only when we assume full responsibility for who and what we are.

Also make one or more plans that create possibilities for you to meet new people

It’s called the “internalized parent,”

Yet I am suggesting that by becoming curious about how you’re showing up with others now as an adult that is allowing, and even encouraging, the pattern to continue, you just might access the power you need to finally outgrow it.

The first was “What will I need to give up to find my way to this future?” The second was “What will I need to embrace and/or cultivate to prepare myself to receive this future?” And the third, “What is my next step to co-create the fulfillment of this future?” (I added that one!)

Or if you’re convinced that you aren’t good enough to get what you want, you may settle for less. Which then locks in evidence of your inferiority.

For this reason, I began each day in a visioning meditation. Which basically means I made a sincere attempt to sit in stillness for a few minutes before running off to the demands of my ridiculous schedule.

Or we may not feel that anyone has truly heard and understood our pain as of yet, so we couldn’t possibly just let it go.

the disappointing truth is that no one will treat you any better than you’re treating yourself.

Friendship with one’s self is all important, because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world.