Calling in "The One" Revised and Expanded: 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life

Luckily, however, you can. You are a maker of miracles. You possess the power to declare a future that is very different from your past, and begin leaning in to discover who you will need to become in order to manifest, then sustain, that experience.

“I am connected to everyone and everything.”

In these moments, we must remember that who we are is far more vast than our ideas of who we are.

Yet what I’ve seen countless times over the years is that it’s nearly impossible to create radical lasting change by ourselves, in isolation. We need a relational field in which to grow our capacity to love and be loved. Love doesn’t flourish by writing about it in our journals, and healing doesn’t happen just by reading a book. It happens in the s

we’ll want to stretch ourselves to consider having all that we desire—love, purpose, creativity, self-expression, career success, belonging, health, abundance, intimacy, and autonomy.

The single most important thing you can do to break free of your old painful patterns, and begin living your version of happily ever after, is to ferociously challenge these narratives.

The first was “What will I need to give up to find my way to this future?” The second was “What will I need to embrace and/or cultivate to prepare myself to receive this future?” And the third, “What is my next step to co-create the fulfillment of this future?” (I added that one!)

It means discovering how to be completely responsible for your own feelings and needs by understanding the lens through which you are interpreting, then responding to whatever’s happening between yourself and others.

I learned that dumping all of your negativity and judgments onto someone under the guise of “communication” was destructive.