Discernment requires us to say “no” to those who would, through the impact of their imprinting, hurt us. Discernment requires us to draw a line in the sand and make ourselves clearly heard if others disrespect our choices.

If you want a more indepth analysis of your behaviors, I suggest you read author Manuel Smith’s book, When I Say No I Feel Guilty, and Dr. Robert Glover’s book, No More Mr. Nice Guy.