Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex

Everything you experience and do in your life is like a ripple on the surface of a boundless openness who you are.

Every act and relationship in your life is an offering. Give…

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Jealousy is the sting of false hope. Even when you get that for which you are jealous—a beautiful girlfriend, fame, a man who truly loves you, great success—nothing essential changes. You are open or closed, various experiences come and go, everything gained is threatened by loss, and nothing is quite as fulfilling as your jealousy promises.

Some people have felt the incomparable ecstasy of achieving their wildest dreams, winning millions of dollars in a lottery or garnering a Nobel Prize. Many mothers have held newborn infants to their breasts, overwhelmed in the bliss of unimaginable love. These kinds of moments are what make life utterly deluding.

You can’t force yourself or others to suddenly open all the way and stay open once and for all. Certain parts open easily, while others seem to refuse. Perhaps you can dance as openness or meditate as openness, but when someone criticizes your great work or loses desire for you sexually, then you simply refuse to open. Like a pouting child, you ref

Wide open, you can offer without holding back, you can receive without pushing away.

Do your best to create pleasure and comfort in your life. But to live true, live open. Resist nothing.

Your capacity to navigate with integrity depends on your strength of depth. Your attention may wander to attractive surface features: breasts, lips, ass. Dive into her luscious radiance through her offered portals of attraction.

The choice is yours in every moment. You can hold the shape of a consoling lifestyle for decades. It only costs your life.