Blue Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Life & Death and Love & Sex

True freedom means freedom as. True freedom is to feel fully and be alive as love, feeling as this entire moment, opening just as this moment is.

When you meet a superior man or woman, your only real choices are to open fully and receive their gifts or to crucify them and be relieved of their force. To grow, you must learn to absorb their intensity of openness that would otherwise simply make you feel how crimped you are.

even though you know that your presence is weaker or your radiance is more faint than theirs. Knowing your inferiority—feeling your dim bulb almost invisible in the shine of their sun—can be very offensive to your need for self-worth.

First you practice opening and loving yourself.

And you are constantly inspired and gifted by those who are more open than you in the moment. The gift must be given. Circulation is the law. If you try to hold back, you suffer. You must freely give your deepest gifts without holding back, and you must also freely receive from the source upstream. Suffering is only your refusal to open. You are al

Openness is valuable. Others feel your masculine openness as strong presence. Your intentions are clear and your attention is tangible. People can trust you. Feeling your unwavering integrity, they offer you their business. Feeling your unperturbable virtue, they offer you their confidence. The trustable force of your presence is valuable to them.

When you are with someone who is more closed than you are being, then your energy flows to him or her.

By middle age, your shining heart may be encased in so many layers of mistrust and protection that your face seems shrouded in gauze of darkness. It is rare to meet an adult whose natural radiance still brightens a room with energy and love.

Eventually, their force of character may seem to influence you so much that you can become suspicious. If you aren’t able to admit their superior openness, then you must find another justification for their influence on you. Suddenly, they may seem to be controlling you, belittling you, using you. You begin to hate them, even though you are also be