Over the past two years, I’ve interviewed dozens of young men and women about their relationships. What’s emerged is a sense that women are absorbing the emotional fallout of a crisis they didn’t create. The anxieties surrounding what it means to be a man in 2025 should matter to everyone. They’re reshaping not just our politics, but the very... See more

In intimate relationships, young women are taking on a disproportionate load of invisible emotional labor, often supporting men through intense feelings of failure and isolation from friends. Many men described feeling “weird or like a waste of time” when opening up to male friends, instead reserving vulnerability for their relationships with... See more

Women unironically think their mere existence is valuable enough for men to sacrifice and die for. Openly admit it

A young fresh out of college White male has to navigate a hostile employment environment where he is both generally undesired and public enemy number one

He has to somehow find a job that pays better than the eventual partner he wants to... See more

i can’t help but think that decentering men is impossible when you’ve had your center cracked by one.