better, as we discussed in Step One. Find something that works for you, that you actually enjoy. Maybe try swimming, spinning, dancing, boxing, or walking your dog.

Just because he wants to sleep with you after you’ve broken up does not mean he’s entertaining thoughts of getting back together.

Your time is much better spent going out alone.

If you let the man lead the conversation and give him home-court advantage, his chest will puff up, and other organs too!

you are NOT considered a gold digger if you expect him to pay for the dates.

face, make sure the venue is a restaurant or other well-lit public place. Check in with a girlfriend before you go. Tell her where you’ll be and what time you’re planning to arrive.

He wants you to cut to the chase and says, “What’s your point?” to get you to fast forward—he’ll never let you tell a full story as he gets bored quickly.

He was a limp, lazy loser, oozing feminine energy and lethargy.

Guy Catchers, but not big prints that will distract