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Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
A systems-first mentality provides the antidote. When you fall in love with the process rather than the product, you don’t have to wait to give yourself permission to be happy.
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
Focus on your system instead.
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
The culture we live in determines which behaviors are attractive
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
summary, habit tracking (1) creates a visual cue that can remind you to act, (2) is inherently motivating because you see the progress you are making and don’t want to lose it, and (3) feels satisfying whenever you record another successful instance of your habit.
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
“Don’t break the chain” is a powerful mantra. Don’t break the chain of sales calls and you’ll build a successful book of business. Don’t break the chain of workouts and you’ll get fit faster than you’d expect.
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
the quality of our lives often depends on the quality of our habits.
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
Small habits helped me fulfill my potential,
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
Diderot’s behavior is not uncommon. In fact, the tendency for one purchase to lead to another one has a name: the Diderot Effect. The Diderot Effect states that obtaining a new possession often creates a spiral of consumption that leads to additional purchases.
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
Broadly speaking, the format for creating an implementation intention is: “When situation X arises, I will perform response Y.”
James Clear • Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
Changing our habits is challenging for two reasons: (1) we try to change the wrong thing and (2) we try to change our habits in the wrong way. In this chapter, I’ll address the first point. In the chapters that follow, I’ll answer the second.