Saved by Sam Liebeskind and
Anatomy of an internet argument
The thing about assuming good intent is that it creates space for actual resolution. When you approach someone's difficult behavior as information rather than attack, you can respond from curiosity instead of defensiveness. You can ask questions instead of building cases. You can offer understanding instead of demanding explanations.
What are They Carrying?
I worry it’s become normal to tense-up and wait for the comment gut-punch, explaining why you’re not only wrong, but inherently evil.