All the Rules

Don’t cancel every single activity you normally do on the weekend so that you can be with him every minute. For example, if you have a Saturday afternoon exercise class, go to it. Let him keep himself busy and wait for you.

When he asks you out, silently count to five before saying yes. It will make him nervous and that’s good!

Last But Not Least—12 Extra Hints

The Rule is that as hard as you worked to play hard to get is how hard you must work to be easygoing! Be kind, considerate, and patient; try to overlook his faults and build up his ego—tell him how good he looks, try to see things his way. Don’t expect him to see things your way all the time.

We just show up, do The Rules, and whoever likes us, likes us, and who doesn’t? We accept whatever happens. We’re laid back and confidant. We don’t struggle.

You’re busy with interests and hobbies and dating, and you’re not calling or chasing men. You have high self-esteem

Act independent. Always be coming or going. Don’t sit on the couch waiting for him to come home.

When we pursue a man, a bell goes off in his head. The challenge is over, and his feelings start to fade. Suddenly, the romance turns to mud. Whatever he found adorable about you, he finds annoying.

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