The Validation Trap

We seek validation: The client's approval. The mentor's praise. The industry's recognition.

Each "yes" from outside pulls us slightly away from the knowing within.

Until one day we realize we've built a business perfectly validated by everyone except ourselves.

The way back: Noticing when decisions come from seeking approval versus... See more

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