A quote by bell hooks
many aspects of our identities are preformed for us,
Shaka McGlotten • Virtual Intimacies: Media, Affect, and Queer Sociality
the ways in which autistic people seek to queer those domains, to fuck up that which is already fucked up.
Melanie Yergeau • Authoring Autism
intimacy is not what some have called “heternormative straight time” whose telos is successful coupledom and reproduction, but something characterized by gestures and interruptions, by a queer futurity or a “not-yet-here,”