A lifetime of should-ing

Goals direct us from the inside, but shoulds are paralyzing judgments from the outside. Goals feel like authentic dreams while shoulds feel like oppressive obligations. Shoulds set up a false dichotomy between either meeting an ideal or being a failure, between perfection or settling. The tyranny of the should even pits us against our own best inte

A lifetime of should-ing

#5: What if you just trusted yourself?

whose path are you on?

Meg Jay • The Defining Decade: Why Your Twenties Matter--And How to Make the Most of Them Now