Every time I do this exercise, no matter where I am in the world, the results are always the same. Some people name their family, their peeps from college, a close group of friends, maybe their coworkers, a sports club they are a part of, a band, or some other special-interest social group. I’ve heard many of them over the years. No matter what the

This is not too surprising—the urge to help one of “Us” is stronger than the urge to help one of “Them” or to help an uncategorizable person.