
#99: always ask

"People frequently get what they deserve, but it doesn't feel like it because the unspoken rule is that you only deserve it if you have (1) the courage to attempt it, (2) the guts to ask for it, and (3) the willingness try again when it doesn't work out the first time."
3-2-1: On getting what you deserve, the power of flexibility, and how good decisions are made

"To get what you want, deserve what you want. Trust, success, and admiration are earned." - Charlie Munger (particularly applicable to young people asking for advice and questioning work life balance)