Oh man, I feel this in my bones 🦴 thank you for articulating it perfectly @nicolajanehobbs 💫 Anyone else? 🙋🏻‍♀️

1. I’d keep her addicted to proving herself. To the court. To the coparent. To the world. Because as long as she’s trying to “be the bigger person”, she’s not being the most powerful one. 2. I’d make her feel guilty for wanting more. I’d whisper: “Isn’t your child enough? Isn’t... See more