The key factor isn’t income itself, but women’s perception that their partner feels threatened or insecure in his role as provider.

When women believe their partner’s masculinity feels fragile, they report higher sexual anxiety, less honest sexual communication, lower sexual satisfaction, and fewer orgasms.

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In couples where women out-earn their partners, women are roughly twice as likely to report faking orgasms compared with couples where men earn the same or more.

Research suggests this isn’t about deception or manipulation, it’s about managing male insecurity.

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I believed important choices would feel dramatic, most just stop being available.

I’m sad that some paths only exist if you walk them early.

I resent people who got what I wanted without paying what I paid.

I’m waiting for clarity so I don’t have to risk being wrong.

I use preparation as a socially acceptable form of fear.

I’m angry at people who moved on while I was still thinking.

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I don’t know how much of my personality is habit rather than choice.

I don’t know whether my kinks are authentic or adaptive.

My sense of self collapses slightly when no one is watching.

I worry I’ve confused stimulation with intimacy.

I’m more sexually shaped by fantasy and accident than I admit.

I want to be treated like a king but I’m terrified of the day I’m not strong enough to lead.

I confuse intensity with meaning.

I confuse comfort with failure.

I secretly feel satisfied when other people fail because it makes me feel less behind.