3-2-1: On Hate as a Defense Mechanism, Reciprocity, and Consistency | James Clear
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3-2-1: On Hate as a Defense Mechanism, Reciprocity, and Consistency | James Clear

Hate is the back of the mirror, without which you would just have a piece of glass. “It can be positive,” Neil Tennant of the Pet Shop Boys wrote in a terrific 1992 polemic on the virtues of hate. “It throws into relief all the things you know you like. It tells you, by elimination, what you’re about… To hate a lot of things is tantamount to really
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