3-2-1: On Hate as a Defense Mechanism, Reciprocity, and Consistency | James Clear
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3-2-1: On Hate as a Defense Mechanism, Reciprocity, and Consistency | James Clear
Hate is the back of the mirror, without which you would just have a piece of glass. “It can be positive,” Neil Tennant of the Pet Shop Boys wrote in a terrific 1992 polemic on the virtues of hate. “It throws into relief all the things you know you like. It tells you, by elimination, what you’re about… To hate a lot of things is tantamount to really
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3-2-1: On the power of relationships, practicing mental toughness, and a little secret of life
James Clearjamesclear.comMost people – maybe more than you think – are peace- and love-seeking creatures who are sometimes caught in bad situations. The most practical thing you can do, even in hard times, is to lead with curiosity, lead with respect, work hard to understand the people you might be taught to detest.
“That means seeing people with generous eyes, offering... See more
“That means seeing people with generous eyes, offering... See more