#181 Dear Baby: Am I fit to be a parent?
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#181 Dear Baby: Am I fit to be a parent?
In such a situation, she may feel lost and be unable to decide. Then the fear of making a mistake becomes her main feeling, and she may try to avoid deciding by going into delay, confusion, or the analysis of irrelevant data.
In the real world you will either understand and adapt to find success or you will fail. Now you can see how we make suboptimal decisions and repeat mistakes. We are afraid to learn and admit when we don’t know enough. This is the mindset that leads to poor decisions. They are a source of stress and anxiety, and consume massive amounts of time.
Not knowing what you want to do can be very disconcerting. You want to go forward but find yourself standing still, overwhelmed by the options or the risks.