Ben Coffee

Savor the little victories as much as you criticize the little mistakes

"If you do not bend, you will break.

The adaptable prevail. Determined, but flexible."

Embrace your losses as fair payment for the surplus of being alive.

When dreaming, imagine success. When preparing, imagine failure. — James Clear

There's no sincere path you can take in life without having your heart broken.

If you can learn from your mistakes, then you have already transformed garbage into flowers.

"Whether a decision is good or bad can change based on how you act after the choice is made.

You can't learn all the lessons beforehand. You learn a lot about what you want in a marriage after getting married. You discover what type of career you enjoy after doing a lot of work. And so it goes in nearly every area of life. In many cases, what you w... See more

"People frequently get what they deserve, but it doesn't feel like it because the unspoken rule is that you only deserve it if you have (1) the courage to attempt it, (2) the guts to ask for it, and (3) the willingness try again when it doesn't work out the first time."

What do I need to let go of this year to create space for what I really want?