Barbara

things to do when i don’t know what to do

• read a book

• take a nap

• go for a walk

• listen to music and dance

• cloud gaze

things to wear when i don’t know what to wear

• wear black

when i feel uninspired to nourish myself but i’m hungry

• drink water or green tea

• eat porridge

"Diving into your mind, through the minds of others, for me to find my own footholds within it."

If you try to find time for your most valued activities by first dealing with all the other important demands on your time, in the hope that there’ll be some left over at the end, you’ll be disappointed. So if a certain activity really matters to you – a creative project, say, though it could just as easily be nurturing a relationship, or activism