great graph. one of the most important things to internalize in life is u have to be known. u have to be honest and let people genuinely fully understand u. and u have to accept that means *more* people won't like who u really are, but that's the only way u get real connections.
“People who are direct are generally in touch with themselves and their desires. People who are habitually indirect usually aren’t.
This is because people who are indirect don’t have much experience with their inner world making contact with the outer world. They sit and theorize instead of saying it out loud and seeing... See more
Christopher Alexander has an observation about problem solving that I like: you should always be focusing on solving the part that has the fewest degrees of freedom.