Sublime
An inspiration engine for ideas
soft_tech
helena.mmm.page
working, handwavey theory on finding a life partner / husband / wife:
- 50% of finding a partner is getting incredibly clear, painfully honest about what U want in a partner, having the courage to admit that to urself and the world (and being shown again and again what U don't
what an insane dynamic to keep being true:
> I spend a lifetime hiding myself, obfuscating my thoughts, trying to pander to what I think people want from me
> It pretty much always blows up in my face, bringing about the exact outcomes I tried to avoid, while also making me feel
"Some people are terrified of you having an experience or holding a perspective that exists outside of their frame, even when you’re not trying to impose your frame."
magic is real but it's like 99% listening
"It’s worth recognising that people who are sincere tend to project their sincerity onto others, and people who are performative tend to project their performativity onto others. It’s a bit like entirely different realities with different rules that run adjacent to each other and