Sublime

They think independently and they are content to act alone. Acutely aware of what others want from them, Nines won’t risk their own integrity in order to join in an activity or belong to a group.

They’re quietly stubborn—perhaps the most stubborn number on the Enneagram. They refuse to be nagged or pushed or coerced into doing anything, so if that’s your method in relating to a Nine you will experience a lot of frustration and disappointment with very little success.

Nines are quiet about their disapproval; they have no desire for anyone to notice their lack of participation.