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Don’t create a situation in which she feels that she has to choose between you and the person described above, because that girl is cooler than you are. Tell her you know she’s in a difficult position, but encourage her to take responsibility, because her torn feelings look like two-faced behavior to other girls. Ask her, “Who’s making the
... See moreRosalind Wiseman • Queen Bees and Wannabes, 3rd Edition: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boys, and the New Realities of Girl World
Information about other people is currency in Girl World—whoever has the most information has the most power. I call that girl the “Banker.” She creates chaos by banking information about girls in her social sphere and dispensing it at strategic intervals. For instance, if a girl has said something negative about another girl, the Banker will
... See moreRosalind Wiseman • Queen Bees and Wannabes, 3rd Edition: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boys, and the New Realities of Girl World
The Banker is confusing to other girls because she seems harmless yet everyone is afraid of her.
Rosalind Wiseman • Queen Bees and Wannabes, 3rd Edition: Helping Your Daughter Survive Cliques, Gossip, Boys, and the New Realities of Girl World
