Sublime

You don’t attract what you are. You attract what you’re still trying to resolve. And when you resolve it you stop seeing your depth as bait and start living it as boundary The more emotionally available you become with yourself… The less you feel the urge to prove it to anyone... See more

When love develops slowly, does your anxious part fear being left behind? If you’ve ever found yourself equating intensity with certainty, you’re not alone. Your inner child — the part of you that experienced abandonment — is bracing for heartbreak, mistaking a slower, healthy pace in... See more

Find the path to secure connection - link in bio

Find the path to secure connection - link in bio

An @anxiousheartsguide post you’ll want to save! Is the recipe for your happy relationship missing a little something? There are real, concrete ways that you can address specific problems that keep popping up in how you relate to others. I don’t want to trivialize this work and how... See more

Find the path to secure connection - link in bio

Find the path to secure connection - link in bio

1. You’ll think your standards are too high—when really, they’ve just never been met. When you’ve spent years settling for breadcrumbs, real consistency might feel boring or “off.” Stay anyway. Safety will feel foreign at first, but it’s not the same as a lack of connection. 2. Your abandonment wound will... See more