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Let this be a fundamental rule of life, one of the most fundamental: Whatsoever you are toward yourself, you will be toward others. If you love yourself, you will love others. If you are flowing within your being, you will be flowing in relationships, also. If you are frozen inside, you will be frozen outside, also. The inner tends to become the
... See moreOsho • Love, Freedom, and Aloneness: On Relationships, Sex, Meditation, and Silence
You get to choose your destiny now. Please don't leave it in the hands of anyone else. Your relationship certainly nourishes and serves you at this point, but ultimately, you have to lean on yourself. If said connection isn't making you feel secure and safe, then go ahead and permit yourself to question it. Not all relationships are meant to last
... See moreOnce you have grown into independent adulthood, you no longer need somebody to take care of you. You can be responsible for yourself. In particular, you realize that you are responsible for your own happiness. Nobody can live your life for you. You must create your own health, success, and happiness.
David Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)
What your most fully realized self is like. How your best self thinks. What they are grateful for, who they love. The first, and most important step, to being the person you were intended to be is to conceive of them. Once you’ve accomplished that, everything else falls in line.
Brianna Wiest • 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think
Jordan Peterson • 12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos
Your self-portraits are as numerous as your activities, and through all of these behaviors there is always YOU, the person that you either accept or reject. Your self-worth, that friendly ever-present shadow, your consultant for personal happiness and personal mastery, must be unrelated to your self-assessments. You exist. You are human. That is
... See moreWayne W. Dyer • Your Erroneous Zones: Step-by-Step Advice for Escaping the Trap of Negative Thinking and Taking Control of Your Life
Be your own last judge.