Sublime

One big hint is that they may be treating you really well but they aren’t so kind to anyone else.

Gaslighting is a centerpiece of narcissistic abuse and operates through a systematic pattern of generating doubt about your experiences, memory, perception, judgment, and emotions.

Narcissistic abuse often consists of the narcissistic person criticizing your family, friends, and workplace, and when you are with those people, the narcissist will behave in a manner that is insulting and rude. A narcissistic person may also tell you falsehoods about people close to you so you question their loyalty and friendship. The result is

If you have been or are currently in a narcissistic relationship, you have been told how you feel, whether you are hungry or not, or even that “You can’t be cold, this room is warm enough.”