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I encourage recovering Nice Guys to begin this process with a therapist, therapy group, 12-step group, a religious leader, or close friend. Since Nice Guys tend to seek out the approval of women, I strongly encourage them to begin this process with men.

By approaching adult situations with survival mechanisms that were formed when they were naive and powerless, they are assured of having very little success in creating anything that resembles stability in their lives.

All three—Alan, Jason, and Jose—believed that someone else’s needs were more important than their own—a common occurrence in Nice Guy families.

In reality, Dating Essentials for Men is about expanding your social and emotional intelligence – I just use men’s desire to get laid and find love as the motivation for helping them grow up and become interesting people.

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